Male Boudoir for the Average Joe: Break the Norm

N‍o six-pack? It’s time for the Average Joe to embrace his confidence in a new way! Male boudoir photo shoot is a great modus to capture a special man in you, and you do not have to look like a fitness model! Whether you’re looking for a gift for your partner or a way to capture your freedom, wall-breaking mindset, strength, and charm—male boudoir is the perfect way to do it.

What is male boudoir?

Male boudoir photography (coined as “dudeoir photography” circa 2013) is a type of photography that captures intimate images of men in a comfortable setting. It is becoming increasingly popular among men of all ages and backgrounds. This type of photography captures a man’s inner strength and sensuality, allowing him to express himself in a way that is unique and meaningful.

Trends and directions

Sexy images of well-fit men have always been around, and male models regularly sport their six-packs in front of photographers’ cameras. They come to me for model portfolios and dating profiles. However, the body positivity spearheaded by confident women opened the doors to boudoir photography for all shapes. Although slower, the gentlemen followed the suit.

According to recent researches, male boudoir is becoming increasingly popular among Average Joes. This is because it is becoming more accepted and less taboo. The statistics also show that more men are becoming more comfortable with the idea of boudoir photography and are more willing to explore it as an option for capturing their own beauty and sensuality. Traditionally, those were informally reserved for women, as also seen in my extensive boudoir photography portfolio.

In male boudoir photography, the pictures usually portray two types of guys: a) the confident ones who could easily grace the covers of Men’s Health magazine, and b) the Average Joes who humorously mock the concept by doing their own version of what the ladies do.

I say, there is a middle ground right there—being an Average Joy who can be serious about male boudoir, all while feeling confident, intriguing, attractive, and sexy.

Benefits of male boudoir photo shoot

Male boudoir photography has many benefits, both physical and emotional. Physically, it can help boost self-confidence and self-esteem. By capturing intimate images of yourself, you can feel empowered and proud of your body.

Emotionally, boudoir photography can help to create a truly intimate connection between you and your partner. Your partner can feel closer to you and gain an appreciation for your beauty. With that, you create a unique bond that can last.

Average Joe’s example

Here’s a cute example: Ben, pictured above, wanted to give her wife a gift of dudeoir photo art book for her birthday. Why? Because she has just given him a birthday gift of her boudoir book! How more bonding can this get??

Most of this article’s images will be from that Average Joe session.

Here’s what he wrote soon after the dudeoir shoot:

Just wanted to let you know. I gave my wife the book I made for her birthday this morning she ABSOLUTELY LOVED IT!!! She couldnt believe I did something like that haha. We cant wait to do a couples shoot in the near future.

Ben

How to prepare for a male boudoir photo shoot

When preparing for a male boudoir shoot, it’s important to feel comfortable and trusting.

Start by finding a photographer who is experienced and creative in male boudoir art. Do your research, review their relevant work, and assess their creativity and skills in mastering light, both natural and studio. Make sure you love the work and can relate to its style. It is helpful if you can hear the photographer’s thoughts on the male boudoir experience. I shared mine in this detailed blog, Straight Male Photographer’s Thoughts on Male Boudoir Photography. Doing all this will ensure that you have a great experience and will get the best results.

It’s also important to make sure that you are well-prepared for the session. This means wearing the right clothing and being comfortable with the poses and expressions you will be asked to make. Take the time to practice your poses and expressions in front of the mirror beforehand.

Consider the setup, background, environment, lighting, and the type of look you are trying to achieve. If you’re not sure or outright clueless, a skilled photographer will guide you through each of the steps before the shoot.

Finally, it’s important to relax and have fun during the session. Remember that the photographer is there to capture your beauty and inner strength. Don’t be afraid to express yourself and let your personality show through the photos.

Unique male boudoir ideas

When planning a dudeoir photoshoot, it’s important to think outside the box. In a few moments, I’ll go over getting creative and experimenting with different poses and expressions, as well as adding props to evoke feelings of strength and courage.

In a broad sense, the easiest idea for a dudeoir photoshoot is to create a themed photoshoot. Consider choosing a topic that speaks of your character, whether it’s a cowboy, Prince of Darkness, or a superhero, and create a unique setting for the session.

If you re stuck with your character description, here are some unique ideas for a dudeoir photoshoot to give you a direction:

Décor and props for a male boudoir photo shoot

For décor and props for a male boudoir shoot, the list is almost endless! It should start with a hard look at yourself, your hobbies, trade, resources, and connections.

The easiest way is to create a unique and intimate setting for the traditional male boudoir session. Consider adding props such as candles, flowers, and other items that evoke feelings of sensuality, seductiveness, and relaxation. For the décor, consider adding items such as artwork, rugs, and furniture that can help create a comfortable and inviting atmosphere. Don’t be afraid to get creative and experiment with different color schemes and textures.

Here are some of the traditional props for a male boudoir shoot that will probably go well:

If you are open to a more creative take on male boudoir photography, consider the following unique prop ideas for your male boudoir shoot. When discussing, be sure to tell your photographer about your interests and personality. You may be the Average Joe but you are different from the other Joe! Getting to know you is what can make a difference between a generic male boudoir photography and a visionary one to turn heads.

Male boudoir outfits

To choose the right outfit for a male boudoir photo shoot, think deep of your style and personality. Wear something that makes you feel comfortable, intriguing, striking, relevant, and confident. It’s also important to remember that the outfit should be something that the Average Joe can feel proud to show off. I’m sure you have it in your wardrobe but if you don’t, treat yourself to a little shopping!

For a classic look, consider wearing a dress shirt and trousers. This can be dressed up or down, depending on the type of look you are trying to achieve. For a little more sophisticated look, wear something like a tuxedo or a suit.

Of course, the creative ones can go nuts with pretty much anything that wraps around their dudeoir theme. Add a little something to any Average Joe and he suddenly becomes not-so-average anymore! Your photographer can help you narrow down the options before the boudoir shoot day or even on the spot. Just bring it all. I always tell my boudoir clients, both female and male, to come with a suitcase or two of outfits so we can play the dress-up (or, er, down) game. It’s always better to have more than needed! Here’s a quick checklist of male boudoir outfits:

Posing tips for male boudoir shoot

Posing for a male boudoir shoot can be a bit intimidating or even feel silly, but it doesn’t have to be. Start by practicing the poses and expressions you wish to try in front of the mirror beforehand. This will help you feel more comfortable and confident when it’s time for the session.

You don’t need to take overly dramatic poses. Instead, focus on subtle expressions and poses that capture your inner strength and courage. I always start simple, then gently push the subject to exploration in the very matter-of-fact way, like buddies discussing new gear.

It’s also important to remember to relax and have fun during the session. Don’t be afraid to express yourself and let your personality show through your photos. Remember, it’s all about a “dude” in dudeoir!

Lastly, as a fashion photographer, I know tricks to make anyone look better. Good posing can do wonders to an Average Joe, and you’ll get plenty of directions! Some of my not-too-secret posing tips for male boudoir shoots are:

• practice the poses to make sure they are flattering; your photographer will take it over during the shoot
• have a variety of poses to create variety in the shoot
• show off your best features
• try to have a relaxed, confident posture
• if your belly concerns you, consider gently sucking it in
• stand with a straight back
• showcase the body from different angles
• hold poses for a few seconds to capture a variety of shots
• experiment with different lighting and backdrops to create unique shots
• use a stool or chair to sit on to create angles
• focus your eyes on the camera
• avoid too much tension in the face, unless it’s a moody shot
• relax the jaw and neck to create a natural look
• point your toes for added length
• use props like a hat or scarf to add depth and creativity to the shots

Conclusion

Male boudoir photography for the Average Joe is an awesome opportunity to show off his inner bravery and might distinctively. It’s becoming more and more fashionable among ordinary people, and it can be a great way to increase your self-belief and self-regard.

Be confident and open-minded to try your male boudoir photo shoot. Get in touch with an experienced and creative professional from Zorz Studios. With the right preparation and professional help, you can capture your inner strength and charm in a way that is both empowering and intimate.